Making a man commit: why men can be fickle when it comes to love
Do you know how to pace a relationship so that a man will chase you down the aisle? What if you could put aside the frustration of trying to get a man to commit and actually get a man to chase you? Are you ready to be the hunted instead of the hunted? If so, then you’re about to learn what 96 percent of women don’t know about how to get a man to commit…
Here’s the first thing to ask yourself: is this what you really want? Before you actually catch this guy, make sure you know what he’s asking for. If you end up getting a man to commit, you may find that you have to get him to continue building the relationship. You may find that indecision is a habit for this man and that you are the one making all the decisions in your relationship. This can be very frustrating, so make sure you don’t make beds in a house on fire.
Second, find out if you’re falling prey to ‘good girl’ syndrome. If you find that you are constantly trying to win her affection or approval, then you are trying too hard. He’s probably bored or maybe a little complacent. It is human nature to feel that anything worthwhile requires work. If he sees that you are too available for him, you may be surprised when you find out that he is no longer in your life and that he is chasing a girl who will give him a good run for her money.
Third, if you’ve been trying to attract him by being sexy, sensual, or romantic, tone it down and focus on being a friend. This is the biggest secret that ‘lucky’ women know. They know that sex and romance are merely superficial forms of attraction. They will get a man to commit only so far. If you really want to win his heart, then friendship is the fastest and most effective way.
So think how a friend can be with him. Friends are much more relaxed and less judgmental than a partner usually is. They respect our space and have their own lives outside of us. As a result, friendships are much more relaxed and enjoyable. So take some pressure off and enjoy your life with him. It will relax his resistance and as long as you give him enough space, you will make him commit to chasing you until he is yours.