My boyfriend abandoned me: an amazing method to get him back
“My boyfriend dumped me, now what?” That is always said by a woman who is feeling a mixture of confusion and panic. We all know that relationships are not always ideal. Problems arise, conflicts arise, and you work together to resolve them. When one person suddenly decides that they don’t want to try anymore, it’s devastating for the other. What exactly are you supposed to do with all that love and devotion you feel? You can’t just bag it up and expect to move on and meet someone else. No. You have to follow your heart and do what’s right for you. Even though right now it feels like you’ve been left out, don’t let that stop you from what you know is your future. If you love him, you owe it to yourself to try to win him back.
Before you launch into an all-out plan to get your man back, consider why he left. Obviously, something within the relationship was no longer working for him. Did they have an argument right before he left them? Have you been arguing about any topic in the last few weeks? Or has your relationship slowly changed from a hot and passionate partner to best friends or roommates? Something definitely changed enough that your boyfriend no longer felt that being in a relationship with you was what he wanted or needed. Be honest with yourself and the situation as you think about why this is the case.
Once you’ve determined what happened to cause the relationship to crash and burn, your job is to fix it. You have one chance to do this. If you don’t handle things the right way, you risk pushing him so far emotionally that the relationship won’t be in a salvageable condition.
Here is the step by step of what you need to do now. Apologize first for your actions before the break up. Neither of us is perfect and even though you were the one who got dumped, things weren’t all rosy between the two of you. Show your ex what a mature and responsible woman you are by telling him you’re sorry. Take a page out of the masculine playbook and keep this very to the point. Just apologize and leave it.
They say that living well is the best revenge and it’s also a fantastic way to win a man back. The next step in your plan to meet him is to make yourself the top priority. He expects you to dedicate your life to trying to get him back. Do not play with that. Instead, temporarily put the relationship behind you and indulge yourself instead. Go out and do the things you like. Get your hair done, plan a manicure, or spend some time with the family.
By holding your head up and showing your ex that you can survive without him, you’ll actually be attracting him back. He doesn’t want to have to face the fact that you can and will make it without him. He will want to show you how much you really need him, and that is what will make him want you back.