Consciously Creating Intimacy: Four Tactics for a More Intimate Setting
There are things we know but may not realize, things like one setting being much more romantic than another. Some of us may not know how to create an intimate setting, but we do know that our surroundings can easily influence how intimate our moment is. So when you want to create an intimate night, you can consciously change the setting to help increase the amount of “magic” in your date. One of those things we know is that a candlelit dinner is an intimate and romantic date, but what we don’t know is: why does it work so well? We understand that environment can certainly influence how well a date goes, however, sometimes we don’t know what to look for or how to create a “magical” intimate setting, one where you can develop strong sexual tension and truly connect with yourself. someone. .
There is something that Casanova, considered one of the greatest novelists of all time, knew; the most romantic atmosphere will always stimulate all your senses. Who wants to go to a restaurant or eat in a place that smells terrible? Most women enjoy the subtle smell of vanilla or a pleasant scent of roses, however some are allergic, so strive to have an environment that has a great scent but is not “painful” for your partner. When we recall a date, we remember how our senses interacted during the date, how things felt, smelled, tasted, looked, and sounded. A memorable scent is also a great way to revive an old memory. So if you’re missing some of that “magic” from your relationship, you might want to find a scent that reminds your lover of a great time you had together when you were both happy.
A little-known tactic that works very well is to align your seat slightly to the left so that when you sit across from your passenger you can have your right eyes aligned. This is a very powerful tactic, it creates intimacy and comfort very quickly and your partner will have no idea why the intimacy, sexual tension and “magic” is happening, but they will certainly “feel” different. You can incorporate this tactic with the intimate look so that kiss at the end of the date is almost inevitable.
And of course there is the “Magically Romantic” candlelight dinner, we all know how effective it is. Looking across the table into your partner’s eyes, you can feel how attracted they are to you. Looking into their eyes, you feel how much you like them. You know why? When we are excited, aroused or attracted to someone our pupils dilate, when we lower the lighting the same thing happens. Your eyes dilate to adjust to the lighting in your environment. So a candlelit dinner makes you look turned on, and this also makes your partner look turned on. We subconsciously correspond; we become aroused because of his arousal. In other words, you are working backwards; this is an incredibly effective tactic that we already “know” on a subconscious level.
Isolation is obviously a must when it comes to intimacy, after all, who wants to date on stage in front of a bunch of people? We don’t want someone watching us while we enjoy that wildly “magical” intimate moment. We prefer to be left alone to talk, smile, or laugh with our partner. During those intimate moments no one else exists except the two of you. It is what makes it so “Magical” and intimate, there is nothing more than the two of you in your intimate moment. So make sure that when you organize your environment to isolate yourself from others, you make it private. You want to be alone in private to look intimately into your partner’s eyes, align your right eyes, look at his lips, smell sweet scents, and smile at them.
These are simple tactics that we all know, but in some cases you just need to realize, it’s not the candlelight that’s romantic, it’s the dim lighting, the stories and tales of romance that contain a romantic fire are endless. However, we all know that electricity is very new to our world, and many romantic stories have yet to be created by the dim lighting of a movie (although many stories already exist). Find a setting that awakens your partner’s senses, especially remember to use sweet fragrances to escalate a setting to “Magically” romantic and incredibly intimate. Aligning your right eyes is the one secret you may not have “known”, but it is one of the most powerful tactics I have found useful. So go find your partner, have a private moment, dim the lighting, look into each other’s right eye and smell that sweet scent to enjoy that “magical” intimate moment.