Marital Problems: You Can Laugh At Them If You Follow This Simple Spiritual Plan
When I looked in the rear view mirror, I could see the huge red fire truck bearing down on me…the lights were flashing aggressively.
Hurriedly, I got out of the way just in time.
But then something strange caught my attention…the sirens weren’t going full blast. There was no emergency. What’s going on?
So I looked closely. And what did I see?
A beautiful young woman with hair like burnished gold… maybe 19, 21 years old, dressed in a sparkling white wedding dress…
with a smiling and elegantly dressed young man. Holding hands and standing in the back of the open-air truck they were in
waving and smiling at the crowd.
wow! This young newlywed couple just rented a fire truck for a night ride around town!
I joined the crowd and waved back. The spectacle lit up the entire place and brought smiles of joy to everyone’s faces.
At that moment I realized how precious and joyous marriage was designed.
This was at 6:15 pm on a Thursday night.
Another time, another place
Different set of people.
At 7 am on Sunday morning at church, I was snapped back to cold, harsh reality… like someone poured a bucket of ice water.
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It happened when I innocently asked a brother how his family was…
“He left… he left me with the children,” was the sad reply.
“Y…you m…means…” I stuttered trying to contain my surprise. Not these. They always seemed so happy… always smiling.
“He just said he felt like he was in prison or something. He packed up our 2 kids and went to Arizona,” he said with a weary sigh.
Then a thought hit me.
“I’m so sorry to hear that”. I started.
“Okay, thanks,” he said.
“Excuse me for asking this…is there a pattern like this in your family…or hers?”
“Not mine,” he said softly but firmly, “in his family no one stays married for long.”
Hmm.
Before that week was over, he had heard of 5 more similar cases.
What could be going wrong?
shocking revelations
In our ministry, years ago, we did some deep spiritual research on the disintegration of marriages and some shocking revelations emerged.
Some of them were not pretty.
In fact, the enemy begins with one of the oldest and most successful strategies in the book: the confusion of tongues.
For Bible students, this dreaded weapon was first used by
God himself against the builders of the tower of babel in Genesis 11.
It is such an effective weapon that it can create suspicion, misunderstanding and general confusion in a marriage…
after a while.
It begins when the husband and wife begin to disagree on just about everything…no one listens to the other and before long communication breaks down…then the enemy unleashes other dangerous weapons.
So we are inclined to pray the psalmist’s prayer: “O Lord, divide the tongues of all those who target my marriage for destruction.” – see Psalm 55:9.
In these marriages, we also discovered a pattern of:
* breakup or divorce either in the husband’s family or on the wife’s side or both.
* marital problems transferred from one generation to another…using vehicles such as ongoing curses and unknown pacts.
* Hidden spiritual marriages in the place.
* invisible marks of hatred placed on the husband or wife. This makes one repulsive to the other and vice versa, after only a few years of marriage.
* Warning signs ignored or simply not understood. Sometimes these warnings come through dreams.
etc.
To give you an example, we once found a man who was deeply in love with his wife, for 6 months.
Then suddenly he couldn’t bear to see her. No one could think of anything wrong that she had done.
Finally, he abandoned her.
She went for counseling… no solution.
Her friends took her to all kinds of “prophets.” She went to see 5 different therapists, 2 psychics and even a hypnotist.
Nothing worked.
She went into prayer asking God for another husband.
No response.
As she said, she had desperately prayed to God to send her someone special with whom she could glorify herself and give him praise… with no answer.
In fact, all he seemed to be receiving turned out to be nothing more than “wolves in sheep’s clothing.”
She gave up…not knowing how to navigate the complicated minefield of finding a sincere, God-fearing man to share her love with.
Then the Lord had mercy on her.
One day, a friend at work invited her to a Friday night prayer meeting.
It was hot and wild… kind of prayer without limits.
During prayers, a sister noticed an invisible mark on her forehead…a small star-shaped symbol that was not visible.
naked eye.
He stopped the prayers and brought up this unique prayer point just for her:
“Blood of Jesus, cleanse all scripture of hate and rejection from my life in Jesus name.”
They prayed it 3 times, thanked the LORD for the answer and went straight to the next prayer point.
Outcome?
That same weekend the husband called for the first time since the breakup.
12 more sessions of personalized prayers (with fasting) followed…and my husband came home.
101 prayer points
I search around. And I found this e-book that I wrote last year as
instruction manual for couples facing marital challenges.
It contained 101 of the most powerful prayer points we have ever
prayed on this topic of marriage and relationships
I revised it, added new material… more teeth, more bite,
hard work prayer points to get straight to the root of the problem and continue to work long after everyone has forgotten
About them.
I have added some explanatory notes and scripture passages.
More specific instructions on how to handle them.
Please listen carefully…
Do you know someone whose marriage is not everything
could it be, maybe a friend or even a relative?
* Or the marriage is about to hit the rocks
* Or it has already broken down
* Or telltale signs of wear are beginning to show
* Or someone who believes in the Lord for a godly husband
* Or any couple just trying to safeguard their marriage
* Or a close friend just fed up with the boredom and loneliness of single life?
Do them a favor… send them this article.
They need to learn the spiritual secrets of how to keep their marriage intact.
Why?
Because the #1 war going on in the spiritual realm right now is directed against marriage and family.
Because if you allow the enemy to steal the joy from your marriage and family, no amount of financial blessings can fill you.
the gaping hole… in the heart.
Because the #1 way to bring back the honey and joy in your marriage is by dedicating it to the LORD through specific prayers.
In order NOT to become a casualty in this raging battle, I advise my readers, especially Christian women, to learn these
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