How to be attractive (Exploring the 52 virtues)

Growing up, I had a hard time getting girls to like me (in a more than friend way). I just couldn’t figure out the secret to winning hearts.

I saw it as a BIG problem and decided to dedicate a few years of my life to find the solution to my question:

“How do I become more attractive? So that people (girls) like me.”

I spent countless hours studying social dynamics, psychology, love systems, and just about anything else I could get my hands on. I eventually found the answer I was looking for in the most unexpected places. The answer I found goes beyond how to like (girls) like me. Take advantage of a force that will have the whole world loves you. Everyone and everything around you will be naturally drawn to you. From business prospects to clients, friends, family, and even bunnies. They will all gravitate towards you.

Today I am going to share with you my valuable findings.

My hope in sharing this information with you is to help you find and bring out the best version of yourself for the world to see. To help you refine and grow from within, in an organic, sustainable and happy way. By laying the right foundation now, you will begin to attract all the good things into your life.

Who wouldn’t want that?

Now, before we get started, a few disclaimers we need to remove.

WARNING: The information I am about to share with you can easily be abused in the wrong hands (think Darth Vader). Viewer discretion advised!

DANGER: DO NOT READ ANYMORE if you are experiencing or have a history of emotional or power abuse.

Remember: With great power comes great responsibility.


The secret to being more attractive is to refine the qualities that are already embedded in your DNA, dormant deep within you.

Through the right kind of education, practice, and service, you will become an irresistible, magnetizing force of attraction.

One of my favorite quotes that explains this in more detail:

“It regards man as a mine rich in gems of inestimable value. Only education can make him reveal his treasures and allow humanity to benefit from them.” -Bahá’u’lláh

This information is not new. It’s been around long before us, and will be around long after we’re gone, it’s ancient and timeless (like gravity), a powerful thing, right?

So what is it?


bat Man i used it

Superman i used it

Almost everyone we admire in our lives has, at some point, used or demonstrated the powerful force of attraction of the virtual.

But wait, what the heck is a virtue?

The virtues are:

“Behaviors or qualities that display a high moral standard. Kindness, virtue, uprightness, morality, integrity, dignity, uprightness, honor, decency, respectability, nobility, dignity, purity; principles, ethics.”

Sexy right!?

Well, maybe not at first glance. (to the untrained eye). Let’s put it in context. One that our generation could better understand:

Think about the following:

  • Disney I used virtuous qualities to create compelling character prototypes that made it almost impossible for a generation of lost boys (like me) to even try to win over the ladies (think “knight in shining armor“).
  • Mario, always has the princess. Bowser didn’t.
  • ryan gosling in “The notebook” – Irresistible right?
  • Excellent inventors, innovatorsY artists. Leonardo Da Vinci, Steve Jobs, MC Hammer.

The list goes on and on…

Virtuous qualities it can be found in almost every character we’ve ever had an attraction to. The virtues are so powerful that we feel them in others, without even knowing what they were or why.

The good news for us is that we don’t need to be a superhero or a knight in shining armor to demonstrate these virtuous qualities. They exist within each of us. If we can identify it and work on it, we can all become a magnetic power of love and the center of attraction.

Virtues are the building blocks of all attractive, influential, and valuable things in the world.


  • Assertiveness
  • taking care of
  • Cleaning
  • Compassion
  • Confidence
  • Consideration
  • Courage
  • Courtesy
  • Creativity
  • Detachment
  • Determination
  • Enthusiasm
  • Excellence
  • Fidelity
  • flexibility
  • Sorry
  • Amiability
  • Generosity
  • Amiability
  • Utility
  • Honesty
  • Honor
  • Modesty
  • Idealism
  • happiness
  • Justice
  • Amiability
  • Love
  • Loyalty
  • Mercy
  • Moderation
  • Modesty
  • Obedience
  • Order
  • Patience
  • Tranquility
  • Prayer
  • Decision
  • reliability
  • Respect
  • Responsibility
  • Reverence
  • self discipline
  • Service
  • Firmness
  • Touch
  • gratitude
  • Tolerance
  • Confidence
  • Integrity
  • Veracity
  • Unit

Pick one and practice it daily, until it becomes effortless. Mastering even one of the above will light a flame that the world will notice.

So, the answer to the question: “How do I become more attractive?” it is,

Strive to bring out and refine the dormant virtues within you.

Practice, practice, practice, until it becomes effortless.

Rethink pushing, cheating, stealing, and putting other people down as a strategy to attract people into your life. It just doesn’t work that way. Work with the natural systems of life, rather than against them, regardless of what television and the mainstream media would have you believe is right or wrong, attractive or unattractive.

Remember who you REALLY are and live life with the highest standard of values ​​possible (even if it goes against the norms of society). HE IS GOOD LOOKING!

Best of luck, the world belongs to you!

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